Divide the ingredients in half to make two batches. Preheat the oven to 350°F. Spread parchment on two round baking sheets.
In the bowl of a stand mixer, cream together butter, molasses, brown sugar, and granulated sugar with the baking powder, baking soda, and salt.
On low speed, gradually add the flour, about 1/4 cup at a time. Alternate adding the eggs and flour, mixing until well combined. Gradually mix in the oats, 1/2 cup at a time, until a thick dough forms. If the dough sticks to the bowl, add more flour or oats as needed.
Prepare a large round baking sheet with parchment. Transfer the dough to the sheet and use a spatula to flatten it, leaving about 3-4 inches of space around the dough. The cookie will spread as it bakes.
Bake for 25-35 minutes or until golden brown and just starting to crack in the center. While the first cookie bakes, prepare and bake the second cookie following the same steps listed above.
Allow both cookies to cool completely on the baking sheets, then chill for one hour or until firm.
For the filling, in a large bowl, beat together powdered sugar, butter, and marshmallow creme using a hand mixer until crumbly. Gradually add milk, a teaspoon at a time, until the frosting is thick yet spreadable. Adjust milk as necessary.
To assemble, flip one cookie to be the bottom of the sandwich. Spread the frosting nearly to the edges, then top with the second cookie, pressing gently to spread the frosting evenly.
Cut into large slices or, for a fun twist, pretend to use a shrink ray to reduce the cookie to a manageable size. Enjoy your gigantic oatmeal creme pie!